Sexual Abuse in Nursing Homes Is Rampant & Underreported | How to Recognize, Report & Protect Your Loved One from Nursing Home Rape & Sexual Abuse

Posted on October 5, 2021 by bermanstaff

The elderly living in nursing homes are among California’s most vulnerable residents. Aging residents may suffer from cognitive decline and/or physical frailty that makes them at risk of many forms of elder abuse. Sexual abuse is the most heinous form of abuse, yet it is one of the least observed and reported.

Myths regarding sexuality in the elderly, the complexity of consent among seniors with dementia, poorly trained staff, understaffed nursing homes, and other forms of negligence all contribute to a hidden but rampant problem.

Nursing Home Sexual Abuse Statistics – How Common Is Elder Sexual Abuse?

Nursing home sexual abuse is a broad term that can cover many types of behavior. Sexual abuse is considered any non-consensual contact of a sexual nature. This may include:

  • Sexual harassment
  • Being forced to view pornography
  • Coerced nudity
  • Rape or sexual assault including penetration of any kind
  • Molestation

Sadly, sexual assaults in nursing homes are far more common than many would believe. Because elder sexual abuse is hard to recognize and rarely reported, the true extent is difficult to pinpoint. However, an increasing number of reports are shedding light on just how widespread the problem is.

A recent CNN investigation into nursing home sex abuse examined federal and state data and interviewed regulators, experts, and victims’ families. It uncovered shocking cases in which nursing homes and government agencies failed to do anything to help victims. The investigation found many cases in which nursing homes were slow to investigate or allegations, police dismissed victims and considered the crime itself unlikely, and repeated allegations against perpetrators were never flagged by regulators.

In one case, a physically frail, 83-year-old woman who was unable to speak was raped by a male caregiver who was caught during the assault by another caregiver. The perpetrator was sentenced to prison, but prosecutors the man had been investigated multiple times for allegations of sexual assault. He had been suspended three separate times while facility officials investigated sexual abuse allegations, usually in which he was the primary suspect. The state and the facility continually found the allegations were unsubstantiated and he was allowed to continue working the overnight shift until he was caught, six years after the first allegation.

The CNN investigation revealed the following:

  • Over 1,000 nursing homes cited for mishandling suspected sexual abuse. That is about 1 out of every 15 nursing homes in the U.S. About 10% of these facilities were cited multiple times.
  • 500+ facilities were cited for failing to investigate or report sexual assault allegations or failing to properly screen employees for past abusive behavior.
  • Since 2000, there have been more than 16,000 complaints regarding sexual abuse in long-term care facilities. However, this only involves cases in which state long-term care ombudsmen were involved.

According to a federal watchdog report released in 2020, California nursing home abuse allegations are not adequately reported. The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services found that among examined incidents of suspected abuse or neglect, 20% of facilities were late in reporting the allegations to the California Department of Public Health or never reported them.

In one case, a woman accused her former caregiver or sexually assaulting her in 2019 at an El Cajon nursing home. She reported the attack immediately to staff and the facility management, but the facility failed to immediately report the incident to the CDPH. When it did report it, the allegation was categorized as “rough handling” instead of sexual assault.

The caregiver, Matthew Fluckiger, left the facility and worked at two other nursing homes in the area and was again accused of sexual assault. He was accused of sexual assault by four victims between March 2017 and January 2020. Yet, after the first allegation in 2017, the CDPH allowed him to continue working in nursing homes and never suspended his CNA certificate while it investigated multiple allegations.

Who Is Most at Risk of Suffering Sexual Abuse in a Nursing Home?

All nursing home residents are vulnerable to abuse of any kind. However, certain residents are at the most risk of being victimized.

  • Residents with a disability that makes it difficult for them to communicate or leaves them bed-bound
  • Residents who are socially isolated without family that visit often
  • Female residents are more likely to be sexually abused than male residents
  • Residents with dementia or any other type of mental impairment or cognitive decline
  • Residents with conditions that affect memory or communication

A published review of fifteen studies found that victims of sexual assault in nursing homes are most likely to be women with physical or cognitive impairments.

Who Is Most Likely to Abuse the Elderly? | Potential Perpetrators of Sexual Abuse of Nursing Home Residents

Anyone your loved one comes into contact with has the potential to commit abuse. While third parties like vendors and physicians as well as family members may commit abuse, most nursing home sexual abuse is committed by male residents or staff members.

The major CNN investigation found that in examined instances, about 25% were allegedly perpetrated by nurses, certified nursing assistants, and other staff members.

The same investigation found most citations against nursing homes involve cases of resident-on-resident abuse. While it’s believed that most sexual assault in nursing homes is perpetrated by other residents, that investigation found that accusations made against caregivers and facility staff are usually much more serious and involve oral sex, digital penetration, and rape. Accusations against other residents were more likely to involve groping, molestation, and indecent exposure.

Nursing homes have a duty to protect residents from abuse from all sources, including staff members and other residents. A nursing home can be held accountable for the actions of its staff as well as failing to take adequate steps to protect residents from other residents.

Sadly, while criminal background checks are required for nursing home employees, they are not required for nursing home applicants. Registered sex offenders must notify a care facility of their status and the facility must notify residents and employees, but sex offenders frequently fall through the cracks, especially when they are placed in a nursing home by family. According to a 2010 report by the U.S. Government Accountability Office, there were at least 700 registered sex offenders living in nursing homes.

How Sexual Abuse in Nursing Homes Occurs | Nursing Home Negligence & Other Factors that Contribute to Sexual Abuse

There are many reasons that sexual assault in nursing homes occurs – and why it is so infrequently recognized, reported, or addressed. The following are some of the many factors that make nursing home residents so vulnerable to sexual abuse.

  • Stereotypes that the elderly are not interested in sexual expression means staff and even family members may not realize the risks from other residents
  • Dependency on care providers
  • Cognitive impairment and diminished physical capacity can make residents a target for perpetrators as victims may be unable to communicate what has happened
  • Co-housing of residents
  • Other residents may have a history of sexual assault
  • Other residents may have conditions like dementia that causes inappropriate sexual behavior and disinhibition
  • Residents have the right to engage in sexual activity, but determining if it was consensual and both residents have the capacity to consent can be challenging
  • The victim’s response to sexual trauma may be mistaken for symptoms of cognitive impairment
  • Victims who do speak up may be ignored when staff do not believe their accusations
  • Learned compliance, cognitive decline, dementia, and other factors can prevent a resident from reporting assault

Nursing homes have a duty to protect residents from abuse and should be aware of the risks each of the above can pose. This is why the facility has a duty to give staff members sufficient training and supervise both residents and staff.

There are many ways in which a nursing home’s negligence can allow sexual abuse to happen, whether it is committed by staff, other residents, or even visitors.

  • Understaffing in nursing homes which means inappropriate or abusive behavior between residents or from other staff members may go undetected. Without adequate supervision, abusive staff may feel they will not be caught when abusing residents. Low staff levels also mean vulnerable residents may be left unattended with other residents who pose a risk.
  • Negligent hiring practices if staff members are not screened for a history of sexual crimes. This is shockingly common.
  • Inadequate training to help staff recognize and prevent sexual abuse. Staff should be educated on how elder sexual abuse occurs, signs of abuse, and how to respond to suspected abuse.
  • No policy on how to address sexual expression or suspected sexual assault.

Signs of Sexual Assault in Elderly People | How to Recognize Sexual Abuse in Vulnerable Nursing Home Residents

Nursing home sexual abuse can be difficult to recognize. Victims of nursing home rape or molestation may be unable to communicate. The signs can also be mistaken for dementia in some residents.

The best way to recognize signs of sexual abuse in an elderly resident is to visit often and be vigilant for changes in your loved one. The signs of sexual elder abuse may or may not be obvious and may include:

  • Bruises around the breasts, inner thighs, and genital area
  • Unexplained anal or vaginal bleeding, irritation, or pain
  • Difficulty sitting or walking that has developed suddenly
  • Torn or bloodied underwear
  • Unexplained sexually transmitted infections
  • Sudden withdrawal
  • Panic attacks or signs of post-traumatic stress disorder
  • Unexplained or sudden behavioral changes such as a fear of being left alone, sleep difficulties, or fear of a certain area or person, or extreme agitation

Note that STDs in nursing homes are not uncommon and do not necessarily indicate abuse if your loved one is capable of giving consent and sexually active. Residents capable of giving consent have the right to engage in consensual sexual activity, but the development of a new sexually transmitted infection may be a red flag.

How to Report Elder Sexual Abuse & Protect a Vulnerable Loved One

If you suspect your loved one has been sexually assaulted, it’s important to take action quickly to not only stop the abuse but ensure your loved one receives the care they need.

The first steps to take are getting your loved one medical care, if needed, and gathering evidence to confirm suspicions if you only have vague concerns.

Make sure your loved one receives medical treatment

If you believe your loved one was sexually assaulted, they should receive medical care immediately. This is important to not only preserve evidence (which is often destroyed, even inadvertently, by staff) but protect your loved one’s health. Call 911 if you believe your loved one suffered serious injury or is in imminent danger.

Make sure your loved one is examined by their primary care physician unless their doctor is associated with the facility. In this case, make sure you get independent medical treatment.

Talk to staff and the administrator about your concerns

This may be a good place to start if you have vague concerns or suspicions to see what staff say and if their explanation matches your loved one’s behavior or symptoms. Make sure you keep notes of what staff tell you as it may be important evidence.

Consider a Hidden Camera

You absolutely do not want to leave a loved one in a situation in which they are being abused, but sometimes a hidden camera is the only way to confirm your suspicions and make sure your loved one is protected. California law allows the use of hidden security cameras in assisted living and nursing homes in residents’ rooms. The California Department of Social Services has approved this measure as long as the resident and family involved in their care agree.

How to Report Sexual Abuse in a Nursing Home

If you have a good idea that your loved one is being abused, take the following steps to report the abuse and have it investigated.

  • File a complaint with the California Department of Health. This can be done online by clicking here or calling to speak with an investigator.
  • Contact your local Long-Term Care Ombudsmen. An ombudsman can help you gather evidence to build a case against the facility. This agency has jurisdiction to investigate abuse in long-term care facilities and nursing homes.
  • Report abuse to Adult Protective Services by calling 1-833-401-0832.

All three agencies are required to cross-report abuse allegations with the appropriate public agencies, law enforcement, and licensing entities. The ombudsman can also help you with the steps that must be taken to ensure your loved one is safe, even if this involves moving them to a new facility.

The next step is contacting a San Diego nursing home abuse lawyer to help you protect your loved one’s rights.

Contact Berman & Riedel, LLP for a Free Consultation

Do you suspect your loved one has suffered nursing home rape or sexual abuse? After seeking medical treatment and reporting the abuse, a San Diego nursing home sexual abuse attorney can help you take the steps necessary to hold the nursing home accountable and seek compensation. Your loved one may be entitled to financial compensation that can help you preserve their quality of life, move to a safer facility, and get the best care possible.

Contact Berman & Riedel, LLP today to schedule a free consultation. Our San Diego nursing home abuse lawyers represent nursing home residents and families throughout California.

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Attorney William M. Berman focuses his practice in the areas of catastrophic personal injury, wrongful death and elder abuse and neglect. Strictly a plaintiffs’ dedicated firm, he never represents insurance companies in the defense of claims. Mr. Berman’s firm remains staunchly committed to helping those who have suffered serious injury or loss due the negligence, intentional misconduct or wrongful acts of others. Mr. Berman has grown his firm to what is considered one of the largest and most successful elder abuse/neglect practices within California. Through his continued successes in handling claims involving nursing home and elder abuse and neglect, Mr. Berman remains a prominent figure in advocating on behalf of this vulnerable class of citizens.
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